My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution

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Are you worried about your children’s level of self-esteem?

With all the pressure and problems that children face today, it’s natural to be concerned and worried about how to develop, nurture and increase our children’s long-term self-esteem & self-confidence as they are entering a tough and challenging world out there. The future of our children and their happiness completely depends on the choices and decisions that we, as parents, make.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution is an invaluable way of focusing on what really matters when we are dealing with our children. It’s a child-centered approach that encourages and enables your child to let you know what really matters to them, how they feel about their lives and the people close to them, and how you can support them as they go forward on their own journey through life. It also lets you tell your child what you find so special about them.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution offers a useful, five step simple & easy process that you can frequently refer to as your child grows, matures and changes.

I have used my 5 Step Self Esteem Solution to work with families who are facing challenges times – from toddler to teen. Whether it is moving up into a new class, changing school or if your family are experiencing teen angst, toddler sleep issues or going through the challenging time of a divorce my simple process can help.

Working together each family member shares the things that they are proud of, good at and feel they are successful at, then we tell each other what we are respect, admire and love about each other, then we explore what’s important to each person from their perspective,  and look at what’s working/not working to help plan for a happier future based on understanding and feeling heard.  You can read some case studies HERE.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  is a valuable tool away from home too as they can be quickly read by teachers and other significant people in your child’s life to help them understand your child’s favourite things, your child’s fears and needs, and what is lovely, special and remarkable about them.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution can also be a starting point for my ongoing parent coaching programmes and fun and exciting self esteem workshops.

  • If you knew of a workshop with proven results that has given children the tools to believe in themselves and build strong self-esteem, would you try it?
  • If you knew of a workshop that was designed to help children feel totally supported, nurtured and understood which would therefore really increase their self-esteem and help them build unshakeable confidence, would you consider it?
  • In today’s fast paced, hectic, challenging world if you found such a workshop that was not only very affordable but offers a RISK FREE 30 day 100% money back guarantee, would you be open to the opportunity?

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Poster typically has five sections:

  1. An appreciation about your child from their perspective – what they like about themselves.
  2. What other family members love, respect and admire about them.
  3. What makes your child REALLY happy and is most important to them from their perspective.
  4. How to support them at home, at school and in life generally while they are going through these changes in their family circumstances.
  5. What’s working/not working from their perspective.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  is a simple, profound & powerful device to have in your parenting toolkit – so join me for a couple of hours while we work together to nurture and transform your child’s life.

If you would like to learn how to do a 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  Poster or come on 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Family Workshop then contact me on 01883 818329 or email me on [email protected] to arrange a time that fits into your busy schedule.

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Click on the link to my Two Hour – Family Workshop – 5 Step Solution  and let’s get started ! There is a SPECIAL OFFER if you sign up today.

After many years of development and research,  I am proud to introduce you to my 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Family Workshop.


My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  is all about building up positive family relationships and nurturing your child’s self esteem.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution is a summary of what really matters to your child whether they are toddlers, school-aged children or teens. It’s a really simple tool to empower you as a family to create harmonious, happy relationships and to nurture your child’s long term self esteem and self confidence so that they can fulfil their unlimited potential emotionally, socially and academically.

Why Use Them?

In our modern society, raising happy, confident, well balanced and emotionally healthy kids is increasingly difficult. One really important aspect to parenting is to meet your child’s need for unconditional love. But did you know there are actually FIVE primary ways in which your child expresses and receives love? And did you know that every child has their own unique way of perceiving that love?

Learning to understand your children’s primary language of love is a very simple way to bring up happy children with strong and positive self esteem. It is also a very easy way to improve your relationship with them.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  enables you, as a family, to discover really important personal and unique information about each of your children. This empowers you to truly bond with, nurture and support, each of your children individually so that they can experience love in the way they like to receive it.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  is a lovely way for your child to have a voice in how they feel supported and nurtured at home, and to have their unique talents and strengths recognised and celebrated. It’s very powerful for your child to have what is important to them recognised.

The One Page Family Workshops

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Workshops will teach you:

  • An appreciation about your child – what they like about themselves and what other family members love, respect and admire about them
  • What is important to them from their perspective
  • How to support them at home, at school and in life generally
  • More creative, in-depth ways to get to know your child fully
  • Original, simple tools to improve communication
  • Practical ways to clarify and share what is important to your family
  • Fun & imaginative ways to help your children connect with their future hopes and dreams
  • How to celebrate and really enjoy family life fully
 

3 Week One Page Programme

This programme includes 3 telephone calls with Sue over the course of three weeks.

  • Week 1 – Teaching you, as a parent, how to create your own 5 Step Self Esteem Solution
  • Week 2 – Creating a 5 Step Self Esteem Solution poster  for your child/children
  • Week 3 – What’s working/not working & creating positive supportive ways forward for your family

For clarity, direction & confidence, whatever you’re going through!
BOOK YOUR PLACE NOW! for just £297 

 

I am going through a divorce

Despite divorce being on the increase around the world, parents often feel at a loss when searching for practical support. They also feel overwhelmed, confused, afraid, resentful, or completely frozen in panic about how to handle the changes in their family’s way of life.

Sometimes this fear manifests itself as animosity, which turns the whole divorce process into a battle, with children trapped in the middle and feeling powerless.

But I want you to remember:

Divorce needn’t be like this.

You can make positive, healthy choices during this very emotional time and make the transition less painful for everyone.

I’ve worked with many parents going through divorce and one of the main worries is how to tell the children about what is going to happen and what to actually say to them and how to nurture them through the very painful, and often traumatic process without damaging their self esteem and self confidence.

Children naturally fear that they’ll lose one of their parents in divorce or that their parents will abandon them. They also fear the changes and disruptions that divorce inevitably bring to their family. Also lots of children often blame themselves for the break up.

When a marriage becomes troubled, a couple often relies on old habits of interacting, which leads to fights rather than solutions. If those old habits didn’t lead to constructive solutions during the marriage, they’ll surely reap no better results during the divorce.

Bitter fights in the divorce courts often stem from these old ways of handling differences and while you may not have been a united front even when you were married, you and your partner must take this opportunity for the good of your children to work together to find ways to nurture them through this time of change.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Process will dramatically lessen your feelings of anxiety, worry, guilt and being overwhelmed. You will now have a practical, simple & easy way forward.

I will help you create a powerful 5 Step Self Esteem Solution specifically designed to support your children through this traumatic time in their lives, so you can all feel more relaxed and positive. You will learn ways to free yourself from some of the guilt, anger and resentment you inevitably feel about what’s happened. It’s never easy when a marriage or significant relationship ends, whatever the reason for the split, and whether you wanted it or not; the breakup of a relationship can turn your while world upside down, and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings for your whole family.

An unhappy marriage can make parenting, and life in general, incredibly stressful and, in hindsight, you probably have said and done things you regret.

But it’s not about pointing the finger of blame at anyone, particularly yourself, or about driving forward constantly looking in the rear view mirror.

It’s now about creating a positive, hopeful, stable and secure future for yourself and for your children.

The loss of the family structure can be incredibly upsetting and distressing for everyone involved as divorce is a major change, but there are plenty of things you can do to get through this difficult time and move forward.

Learning how to create a 5 Step Self Esteem Solution poster will transform your child’s confidence, give you some tangible ways to help them through the transition, and give you some simple, loving ways to nurture their self-esteem so that their self-confidence is not permanently damaged  by the experience.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution process will deepen your relationships, strengthen your bonds and give you all a sense of unity quickly and easily.

Doing a really simple 5 Step Self Esteem Solution poster together with your child, on your own or with your partner, will bring you confidence & clarity and help you RELAX, knowing that you have paid attention to the details that matter and that your children will experience love and support in the way that they like to receive it.

Lots of parents pop the 5 Step Self Esteem Solution poster up in the kitchen and add personal photos and pictures to make it look unique & special; what’s so wonderful is that it keeps growing and changing as your child grows and changes too and things settle down.

Click the image below for an example

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My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Poster typically has five sections:

  1. An appreciation about your child from their perspective – what they like about themselves.
  2.  What other family members love, respect and admire about them.
  3. What makes your child REALLY happy and is most important to them from their perspective.
  4. How to support them at home, at school and in life generally while they are going through these changes in their family circumstances.
  5. What’s working/not working from their perspective.

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  is a simple, profound & powerful device to have in your parenting toolkit – so join me for a couple of hours while we work together to nurture and transform your child’s life.

If you would like to learn how to do a 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  Poster or come on 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Family Workshop then contact me on 01883 818329 or email me on [email protected] to arrange a time that fits into your busy schedule.

My child is in nursery

My 5 Step Self Esteem Solution for Babies are a really super technique for Mums who are worried about going back to work and are already feeling anxious, worried and guilty about leaving their little ones with someone else.

Doing a really simple 5 Step Self Esteem Solution poster for your little one will bring you confidence & clarity and will help you RELAX knowing that everything is covered. You can leave a really, really detailed poster for people who look after your little one, whether it’s Dad, Grandma, Granddad, Aunties, Nannies, Childminders, Babysitters  etc. You’ll feel reassured that anyone looking after your baby has only to refer to the poster to know which Teddy they like, which side of the cot they prefer to sleep on, that they kick off their duvet, that they like their food at a certain time every day, that they prefer bananas to peaches and that  a certain type of cry means that they are tired – all sorts of really detailed stuff that makes a baby feel nurtured in the way they like to feel nurtured.

Lots of parents pop their baby’s poster up in the bedroom and build on it with photos and development comments. What’s so wonderful is that it keeps growing and changing as your child grows and changes too.

I also do my 5 Step Self Esteem Solution  with families who have Toddlers, School Aged Kids and Teenagers – it’s brilliant for building their self esteem and building bridges, rather than walls between you.

So if you would like to learn how to do my 5 Step Self Esteem Solution , or come on a 5 Step Self Esteem Solution Family workshop, contact me on 01883 818329 today to arrange a time that fits in with you and your family’s schedule.

Here’s a blog I did about our 1st Family 5 Step Self Esteem Solution   Workshop https://sueatkinsparentingcoach.com/today-was-an-important-day/

My Child is in primary school

We offer workshops for children to help them get started on their own one-page profile. We have workshops for 5 – 7 year olds, and workshops for 8-11 year olds

My child is in secondary school

We offer workshops for children to help them get started on their own one-page profile.

I live with a teenager

We offer workshops for teens to help them get started on their own one-page profile. This can be adapted over time to later inform personal statements for University applications. We also have workshop for parents, to look at how to introduce one-page profiles to their teen.

Book your session with Sue today!