divorce ring

As regular readers of my blog will know it is exactly a year ago tonight that I found out on Facebook that my husband of 21 years was “in love” with a 35 year old Romanian woman who lived in Sweden.

My kids bought me yellow roses and cooked a meal for me with chocolate involved in the pudding.

I was touched.

So what have I learned about myself this last year?

Well I never knew what fear was until I woke up in the night constantly at 3 am transfixed with fear about my future.

I’ve learnt that I am resilient, tenacious, vulnerable and a survivor.

I always tell my clients that divorce is a process not an event – I still believe that to be true and that you need to make sure you have good friends to support you when you wobble.

Here is an article from Huffington Post entitled 20 Things No One Tells You About Divorce

Can you add some of your own?

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/01/life-after-divorce_n_3530316.html?ir=Divorce