The envelope gently lands on the doormat with more of a flutter than a heavy thud, but the contents have the potential to help your child’s dreams come true… or shatter them into a million tiny pieces …… for now.
But it’s about mindset, getting back up, and looking for the positive ways forward if things haven’t gone according to plan.
But whatever the results it’s always a day of very mixed emotions for many young people.
Some achieve above their expectations and others feel shocked, stunned and disappointed.
I can still remember the day I didn’t get the grades I was expecting for my “A” levels the first time and the worst thing was not only opening the paper and seeing the results, but being run up by all my friends who expected me to do well and wanted to share all their great exciting news with me.
So what can you do when your kids don’t do as well as they expected?
Well, the first thing is not to look disappointed and look to blame someone – it’s a natural reaction but it’s not helpful because it will not move you all as a family into a more resourceful place.
Stay grounded, centred and positive for your teen – even if you feel upset or disappointed for them and don’t allow your partner’s reaction to cloud or influence yours ! Often in life we look back and say – gosh I’m really glad that happened as …. this wouldn’t have happened …. and I wouldn’t have …. travelled, met my wife , or spent time in Bristol instead.
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