The 3 Styles of Managing Your Child’s Behaviour
There are 3 broad styles of managing children’s behaviour but what has the most influence on your child is your confidence, style and personality.
- Your style affects the atmosphere, mood and tone in your home.
- Your style is a blueprint for what your children copy and learn from as you are their first role model.
- Your beliefs determine your style as well as your approach to disciplining your kids.
Over the next couple of days as I tell you about the different styles just ask yourself:
“Which style do I want to choose for my own children to experience?”
“What memories am I creating for them?”
“What am I teaching them?
“What are they learning from my behaviour, tone and attitude?”
If you don’t like what you discover – don’t beat yourself up, just commit to making a small change this week that will become a big change over time.
- Children must be controlled
- “Don’t give an inch” – otherwise kids will take a mile
- Parents deserve respect automatically.
- If I appear flexible my kids will take advantage of me and I will have lost control
- Bringing up kids is a battle so I must win no matter what.
- I “tell” my kids what to do
- I threaten them with punishments
- I send them to their rooms and don’t explain, discuss or teach them my rules, expectations or reasons.
- We have a poor relationship
- We all have high levels of stress
- Learning, motivation and being relaxed together are all significantly damaged through this way of doing things.
So can you see yourself in this style?
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