Here is an excellent article from Sue Scheff who is an Author and Parent Advocate. She founded Parents’ Universal Resource Experts in 2001. P.U.R.E. is an organization that helps parents with struggling teens. Learn more at www.suescheff.com and email Sue at [email protected]
Learning the teen language is only the beginning of parenting teenagers today.
Do you know the A-Z text codes?
Brought to you by TextZapper, now is a very good time to become an educated parent!
TextZapper is a parental-controlled cell phone app, which essentially has a message monitoring component that notifies the parent who is alerted via a text on their cell phone – if a suspicious text or email is sent to their son or daughter.
Any language which makes reference to sex, sexting, as well as things related to cyberbullying, suicide, guns, weapons or drugs – among many other things – are red-flagged.
There are more than 11,000 key words and phrases that trigger the notification. In addition to the alert about the message, the parent will also receive the phone number responsible for sending the message.
Here is an A-Z list of text codes you should know about:
- 1174 Nude club
- 182 I hate you
- 420 Marijuana
- 4Q F*** You
- 53X Sex
- 8 Oral sex
- 9 Parent is watching
- 99 Parent is no longer watching
- A/S/L/P Age/Sex/Location/Picture
- A3 Anyplace, Anywhere, Anytime
- ADIH Another Day In Hell
- ASL Age/Sex/Location
- banana code word for penis
- BITFOB Bring It The F*** On, Bitch
- BJ Blow Job
- BM Byte Me
- BMF Bad Mother F***er
- BOHICA Bend Over Here It Comes Again
- BTFO Back The F*** Off -or- Bend The F*** Over
- BUFF Big Ugly Fat F***
- CBF Can’t Be F***ed
- CBJ Covered Blow Job
- CD9 Code 9 – it means parents are around
- CU46 See You For Sex
- DOC Drug Of Choice
- DUM Do You Masturbate?
- DURS Damn You Are Sexy
- DUSL Do You Scream Loud?
- EOL End Of Life
- ESMF Eat Sh** Mother F***er
- FAH F***ing A Hot
- FAP F***ing A Pissed
- FAYF*** All Y’all
- FBF*** Buddy -or- FaceBook
- FBI F***ing Brilliant Idea -or- Female Body Inspector
- FMLTWIA F*** Me Like The Whore I Am
- FMUTA F*** Me Up The Ass
- FNG F***ing New Guy
- FO F*** Off
- FOAD F*** Off And Die
- FU2 F*** You Too
- FUBAR F***ed Up Beyond All Recognition (or Repair)
- FUBB F***ed Up Beyond Belief
- GAFL Get A F***ing Life
- GAGFI Gives A Gay First Impression
- GAL Get A Life
- HOIC Hold On, I’m Coming
- I&I Intercourse & Inebriation
- IBGYBG I’ll Be Gone, You’ll Be Gone
- IPN I’m Posting Naked
- ITS Intense Text Sex
- IWBAPTKYAIYSTA I Will Buy A Plane Ticket And Kick Your Ass If You Say That Again
- IWBNI It Would Be Nice If
- IWFU I Wanna F*** You
- IWIWU I Wish I Was You
- IWSN Want Sex Now
- IYAOYAS If You Ain’t Ordinance You Ain’t Sh**
- kitty Code word for vagina
- KPC Keeping Parents Clueless
- KWSTA Kiss With Serious Tongue Action
- L8R Later
- L?^ Let’s hook up
- LABATYD Life’s A Bitch And Then You Die
- LAGNAF Lets All Get Naked And F***
- LAQ Lame Ass Quote
- LB?W/C Like Bondage? Whips or Chains
- LBR and LGR Little Boy’s Room and Little Girl’s Room
- LBUG or LBIG Laughing Because You’re Gay -or- Laughing Because I’m Gay
- LD Long Distance -or- Later Dude
- LDIMEDILLIGAF Look Deeply Into My Eyes, Does It Look Like I Give A F***
- LHOS Lets Have Online Sex
- LHSO Let’s Have Sex Online
- LHU Let’s Hook Up
- LIB Lying In Bed
- NICE Nonsense In Crappy Existence
- NIFOC Nude In Front Of The Computer
- NIGYYSOB Now I’ve Got You, You Son Of a B*tch
- RUH Are You Horny?
- RUMCYMHMD Are You on Medication Cause You Must Have Missed a Dose
- RUMORF Are You Male OR Female?
- SMB Suck My Balls
- STM Spank The Monkey
- URAPITA You Are A Pain In The Ass
- URSAI You Are Such An Idiot
ZapMyText and learn more about what your teens are talking about. More importantly, be sure they are not text talking and driving. Texting and driving is deadly – talk today to your teen about texting and driving and the life you save may be your child’s.
Anna, a Sunrise resident and mother of a 15 year-old daughter, reviewed the above list. “Where in the world do these kids come up with these things. When we were going up we would be punished for even mentioning some of this stuff,” Anna stated. Yes, this is a new generation.
Be an educated parent, you will have safer teens.
Suggested by the author:
- TextZapper: Because safety matters
- Texting: Tracking, sending, forwarding, copying – comes to an end!
- No text is worth dying for, no text is worth losing a loved one over, no text is worth brain damage
- Distracted bicycling: Teens texting while biking, two wheel texting is dangerous
- Warning signs your teen might be ‘at risk’ online
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Sue Atkins is a Parenting Expert who offers practical guidance for bringing up happy, confident, well behaved children. She is also the author of “Raising Happy Children for Dummies” one in the famous black and yellow series published worldwide and the highly acclaimed Parenting Made Easy CDs. She regularly appears on BBC Breakfast and The Jeremy Vine Show on BBC Radio 2 and her parenting articles are published all over the world.
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